Newbie from Nottingham

Greetings. After nearly 30 years of riding sports bike I've finally taken the plunge, done the sensible thing and bought an '08 Monster S4R Testastretta. It's not my first Ducati, I had a mk.1 999S for a couple of years. I haven't picked it up yet either and the wait is starting to kill me so I've been entertaining myself by trying to find a Termignoni exhaust for it, planting fog might be easier.

I have some questions:

For engine parts I'm guessing S4RS bits fit?
Ditto rear paddock stand?
Where can I find a workshop manual for it?
Does anyone have or know of a Termi/Zard exhaust and chip (cans not complete system) for sale?
I've heard that decoring the standard cans and a decat pipe is an option?

All information greatly appreciated.

P.S How do I upload pictures?

Thanks

Jamie