Joining from Hertfordshire

Hi all,

Finally made it onto the forum and looking forward to learning lots from you guys. I recently took a used 696 out for a test ride and absolutely loved it. I had tried a Kawasaki ER-6N and a Yamaha 600 Diversion on the same day which were both great bikes, but just didn't have the X factor. The Monster sounds and feels awesome, I couldn't fault it but I know there are many experts out there who might have some comments for me.

I love the Monster in black but quite like the pearl white. Is this a little girly?
I want ABS but I'm being warned off it by most the professionals. Any comments?
Any experiences good or bad with Ducati Aylesbury, and do you recommend I deal with someone there?
What kind of discount should I expect to negotiate from a dealer?

Thanks looking forward to any comments,
Kameloil